Thought this was a powerful post, lots to consider in this.
One of the most difficult things to come to terms with is that your abuser did not love you. There are a couple of reasons why this is so hard to process.
It is hard for us to believe that they did not love us, because they told us they loved us. Why would someone tell you they loved you, if they didn’t ? Most people are very careful with the words “I love You.”
We have been brought up in a world that tells us not to say those words until we are sure.
We have been brought up in a world where we know that people will hold those words back, until they are very sure that they feel that way. Not only do people hold onto “I love you,” until they are sure about their feelings, they will also hold out on saying it, until they feel…
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